I am very 'vanilla' on the surface and in most regards a 'regular' guy. I was widowed nearly 4 years ago. I'm on the dating learning curve all over again, after thinking I was sorted for life... I have a very cute cat who is a great friend, and I have been vegetarian all my adult life. I'm a little reserved and it's not surprising my preference is for confident ladies with a more bubbly and/or dominant personality. However, I am no wimp either.

I am ultimately seeking a long term relationship/life partner with whom we can both explore cuckoldry. I am an intelligent, reasonably fit guy just with unconventional desires. I'm a stable and reliable sort of gentleman and can offer, and I seek loving companionship. Nonetheless, I do not want my partner constrained in her pursuit of physical bliss and I would be happy for her to have an additional lover(s). More to the point, I am very fascinated by cuckolding dynamics.

I enjoy trying new things/new experiences and enjoy going out, but also enjoy quiet evenings at home: reading a book, spending time with friends, or just spending time with someone I care about. I am slim to medium build, mostly silver hair now, 6'.0", physically fit and I think I look quite reasonable for my age. Keeping fit and slim is important to me.

I am hoping to find the right lady to complement me, with one part of that being a cuckold/wittol relationship. Someone that I can talk to about anything, and at times deep and meaningful conversations. Someone open minded, non judgemental, and looking to experience new things. Someone who can help me evolve as I help her grow. Someone who I can hold at night to feel comfortable, and make her feel comfortable as well. Someone who wants to be with me, but is independent enough that she has her own life as well. I'd prefer to meet someone within the U.K, preferably Northern England, however I would be happy to hear from possible suitors anywhere. Thanks for reading.